Real Modern Man

There has been a lot of discussion about Rapport and it´s importance in Pick-up and Seduction.

In regard to this subject I can only repeat once again that "the map is not the territory" and that "every behavior has a positive intention behind it".

In a word: there is no final truth.

If our purpose is to have sex with a woman we might very well pick-up and seduce women without bothering too much about Rapport but in my opinion what we will get then will be a lot of sex but also a lot of trouble and LSE women.

In a word: the skill of being in Rapport with another human being is a sign of good psychological healthy in a woman.

Again this is only a belief from my actual map of the world. I have had different maps in the past.

There is a group of woman who has paranoid tendencies i.e. they have a low level of Basic Trust and it is important to detect them early on during pick-up.

So one thing you can do along the sarge is the "Rapport Test".

You quickly detect something which might be of value for the girl and in a really polite way make a neutral comment about it.

For example:

- She has an interesting ear ring and me..

Franco: "I have seen that ear ring before, did you buy it in Egypt?"

- She has black hair

Franco: "You look little bit Italian, do you have Italian relatives?"

Now this is at the same time a test for Rapport and a pick-up technique.

Your comment is neutral and you are making her self-conscious.

Doing this test requires a lot of skills in fact if an AFC does this he will come out as a nice guy. She will consider this simply an IOI from an AFC and laugh to it.

But if you are able to do this in the proper way i.e. in a manly way and with a non verbal of active distinterest you will be at that point able to:

- Make her self conscious which will give you the way for further attraction building and..

- Be able to distinguish between girls with lower self-esteem and paranoid tendencies and more normal girls.

In fact: a woman with a very low basic trust and paranoid tendency will react to this "Mini Call for Rapport" with suspect, when she gets self-conscious she will have a lot of signs of uneasiness in her non verbal and even more important she will not be able to relate to it naturally.

Instead a more normal woman with a good basic trust will be able to get rapport with you and will not be bothered too much - actually she will be pleased - by the fact that you are getting rapport with her for a second.

And from there you will be quickly able to know who is the woman you want to eject and who is the woman you want to seduce.

This is not in conflict with the attraction game, it gives you quickly a clue of with which woman it is worth to continue the sarge and with whom not.

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